{"id":7302,"date":"2021-04-03T22:40:31","date_gmt":"2021-04-03T20:40:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/evafog.dk\/?p=7302"},"modified":"2026-03-20T20:43:21","modified_gmt":"2026-03-20T19:43:21","slug":"mini-serie-naar-livet-goer-ondt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/en\/mini-serie-naar-livet-goer-ondt\/","title":{"rendered":"Mini series: When life hurts"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Miniserie: N\u00e5r livet g\u00f8r ondt<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Det er ikke nemt at vokse op. Det ene \u00f8jeblik kan man v\u00e6re jublende lykkelig. Det n\u00e6ste er man klar til at forlade denne jord for evigt. I mine samtaler med b\u00f8rn og unge, er behovet for st\u00f8tte og vejledning enormt.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Som digital p\u00e6dagog, med benene solidt placeret i de sociale medier, er det mig de unge brugere ofte kommer til. Overvindelsen ved at snakke med de n\u00e6re voksne kan v\u00e6re stor. <em>&#8216;Min mor\/far forst\u00e5r mig ikke&#8217;<\/em>. <em>&#8216;Jeg vil ikke g\u00f8re dem kede af det&#8217;<\/em>. <em>&#8216;Jeg ved ikke, hvordan jeg skal sige det&#8217;<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00e5 <a href=\"https:\/\/tiktok.com\/@evafog\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">TikTok<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/hilseneva\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a> henvender det unge publikum sig til mig for at l\u00e6sse af. En invitation jeg altid giver, i h\u00e5b om at n\u00e5 dem f\u00f8r de rammer en afgrund. Med den kontakt kan jeg hj\u00e6lpe de unge med at f\u00e5 modet til at kontakte en prim\u00e6r voksen \u2014 om det er for\u00e6ldre, onkler\/tanter, l\u00e6rere eller p\u00e6dagoger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I arbejdet med at hj\u00e6lpe de unge har jeg skabt 6 sm\u00e5 videoer om det de oftest har brug for at snakke om. De kan ogs\u00e5 ses p\u00e5 <a href=\"https:\/\/youtube.com\/playlist?list=PLe8W4xWxNewT5bK0KsCzrnKsczrVS79b5\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">YouTube<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8d39b2df wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video controls src=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Naar-livet-goer-ondt-del-1_-Du-er-ikke-alene.mp4\" poster=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_2459-scaled.jpg\"><\/video><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Del 1: Du er ikke alene<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video controls src=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Naar-livet-goer-ondt-del-2_-Naar-hormoner-spiller-en-rolle.mp4\" poster=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_2462.png\"><\/video><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Del 2: N\u00e5r hormoner spiller en rolle<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video controls src=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Naar-livet-goer-ondt-del-3_-Tak-hjerne.mp4\" poster=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_2463-scaled.jpg\"><\/video><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Del 3: Tak, hjerne<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8d39b2df wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video controls src=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Naar-livet-goer-ondt-del-4_-I-foelelsernes-vold.mp4\" poster=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_2464-scaled.jpg\"><\/video><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Del 4: I f\u00f8lelsernes vold<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video controls src=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Naar-livet-goer-ondt-del-5_-Snak-med-nogen.mp4\" poster=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_2469-scaled.jpg\"><\/video><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Del 5: Snak med nogen<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video controls src=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Naar-livet-goer-ondt-del-6_-Naar-din-ven-har-det-slemt.mp4\" poster=\"https:\/\/evafog.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_2468-scaled.jpg\"><\/video><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Del 6: N\u00e5r din ven har det slemt<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Digitalt n\u00e6rv\u00e6r og p\u00e6dagogik \u2014 i \u00f8jenh\u00f8jde<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Although my birth certificate is dated 1979, there is room and justification for someone like me on TikTok. Hundreds of inquiries from children and young people has shown that. As an authentic and open adult who participates out of desire and passion, rather than necessity, I tapped into a part of the lives of child and youth that few adults are allowed to participate in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Too many young people are alone on social media and too many of them will not seek out their primary adults when things happen. This is where I, with information and guidance via digital communication, step in. Since the start-up of my English Channel in October 2019 and then my Danish channel in January 2020, I have communicated daily with the young users about everything from the technology behind the media, to bullying, suicide and rape.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Der mangler voksne p\u00e5 de sociale medier, og via specielt TikTok er jeg endt som bindeleddet mellem det digitale liv, og de unge brugeres prim\u00e6re voksne. Det er nemmere at snakke med hende man &#8216;kender&#8217; fra TikTok \u2014 hende, som ikke tager ens sociale medier fra en, eller sk\u00e6lder en ud fordi hun bliver forskr\u00e6kkede.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Follow <a href=\"https:\/\/tiktok.com\/@evafog\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">TikTok @evafog<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/hilseneva\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram @hilseneva<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Miniserie: N\u00e5r livet g\u00f8r ondt Det er ikke nemt at vokse op. Det ene \u00f8jeblik kan man v\u00e6re jublende lykkelig. Det n\u00e6ste er man klar til at forlade denne jord for evigt. I mine samtaler med b\u00f8rn og unge, er behovet for st\u00f8tte og vejledning enormt. 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